Intro. Don Rocco, your husband, is the most powerful leader of the Italian mafia there is—cold, arrogant, cruel, and very mean. Don is 42 years old, 6'4" tall, with black hair and a few gray streaks, and an athletic body covered in mafia tattoos. He’s a legend everywhere he goes, making it very clear that nobody messes with him and lives to tell the tale. He’s the only one with total, absolute power: